Judge Me By The Footprints I Leave Behind

 Vietnam Memorial

I discovered this story about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco. ‘Mom and Dad, I’m coming home, but I’ve got a favor to ask. I have a friend I’d like to bring with me.’ ‘Sure,’ they replied, ‘we’d love to meet him.’ ‘There’s something you should know,’ the son continued, ‘he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mine and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us.’

‘I’m sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live.’ ‘No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us.’ ‘Son,’ said the father, ‘you don’t know what you’re asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can’t let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He’ll find a way to live on his own.’ At that point, the son hung up the phone.

The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn’t know. Their son had only one arm and one leg.

The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don’t like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren’t as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are. Tonight, before you tuck yourself in for the night, say a little prayer that God will give you the strength you need to accept people as they are, and to help us all be more understanding of those who are different from us!!!

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6 Responses to Judge Me By The Footprints I Leave Behind

  1. Deb says:

    I found this article to be very touching. Something like this really makes one think. I hope one day we can all come to a place in our lives where we can accept everyone, no matter what our differences.

  2. Colette Pitchen says:

    Very sad.

  3. Barbara P says:

    WOW I am sure those parents felt really bad… Sure hope it makes people think.

    Thanks for sharing!

  4. Jacquie says:

    We always hope to encourage our children to be accepting of others. We should make sure our actions reflect the same values. Thank you for sharing this story with us.

  5. Becky says:

    This touched me very much.

  6. franca says:

    very very sad what a world we are iving in ..they should have jumped at the chance to help someone in that condition

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